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Do you have the perfect
pet? Tell us the
secret if you do. If you don’t then you’re not alone.
Many of us have a preconceived idea of the relationship we would
like to have with our pets before we acquire them? Commonly these
beliefs are based on childhood memories, on current relationships
with animals or even on fictional animals in books, films and
television.
Sometimes our preconceptions are extraordinarily unrealistic. Think
of the "Lassie Syndrome" where our Collie can communicate with us
and together we can save the world or a "Pongo Scenario" where our
Dalmatian wakes us up each morning with a cup of coffee and the
newspaper!
Even if our aspirations for wonderfully behaved pets are not as high
as this, we still have some notions about the type of canine that we
should be sharing our life with. The Golden Retriever - a good
family dog. The Border Collie - an intelligent canine -never mind
that you can’t provide the sheep to round up.
It is when the animal cannot live up to these expectations (and how
many pets can?!) that trouble begins.
When owners were asked about their ideal pets and the shortcomings
of their existing pets some interesting answers emerged:
Ideal dogs should be more affectionate, excitable and active; less
confident, obedient and happy to be alone.
The owners in this study were all
attached to their pet so, although the perfect pet did not exist,
they were able to live with the reality. Not all pets are as lucky,
however, and many end up seeking new homes.
The perfect pet probably does not exist and it is important we enter
into the relationship with realistic expectations. Pets are not
perfect – nor are we!
By Dr Joanne Righetti
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